Saturday, September 29, 2007
A long overdue update
Boy does life ever have a way of quickly passing by. September draws to an end and I haven’t even recorded what I have spent the month doing. Greg started his sophomore year of high school and was surprisingly happy to be back at school. I think it is such a social thing for him that he misses his friends over the summer (everyone is off to camps, working, etc.). He has a full course load once again, but is already saying that it is too easy for him. He loves AP Stat and Chemistry and is even taking Journalism. He is working for the school paper, mainly concentrating on the national sports scene. He signed up for fall ball in Flemington once again and is enjoying that. It just isn’t the same without our friends, the Mercolinos, but it is still enjoyable sitting in the cool evenings under the lights watching baseball.
Casey enjoyed a quiet early September before heading off to school last weekend. Her boyfriend came for a visit and we went apple picking and made scarecrows (something we haven’t done for a few years). She won the Common Knowledge – Jim Kramer Mad Money scholarship contest and earned $500 towards college tuition. Just a drop in the bucket, but every little bit helps. Her and I enjoyed a nice weekend taking her back to school and getting her dorm room set up. I miss having her around – not only was she a big help to me, but we enjoyed nightly walks together.
In wrapping up the summer projects accomplished, we had our new storm doors installed yesterday and what a difference it makes. I just wish we had done this much sooner. Lucky likes to sit and look out the doors.
This weekend I am busy stocking the freezer in order to have quick prep meals during the week. My recipes include homemade pizza sauce (made from the bounty of tomatoes my neighbor gave me), Cincinnati chili, beef stew, chicken and broccoli fettucine, roast chicken, and cookie doughs. I am trying out some new recipes and using some old favorites. My plan is to spend every other weekend doing some cooking prep so that we always have something to pull out of the freezer. We’ll see how long this lasts!!! Maybe next weekend I will make Dad’s spaghetti and meatballs in his honor.
Yes, it is that time of year when Dad and Mom’s death hits me pretty hard. Even 4 years later, it still hurts to believe that they are gone. I remember Mom asking me to pray for her and Dad and I’m happy to say that I do that every night. She also asked that I keep on top of the family history. I haven’t done too much of that unfortunately. I did resubscribe to the Rumford paper in the hopes that I can keep track of those family members. I can’t beat myself up about this, but I know that I should be doing more. I think it just overwhelms me at times.
Saturday, September 01, 2007
September 1 and Missing My Mom
It is so hard to believe that it was 4 years ago today that Mom left us to go to a greater place. I miss her everyday and hope that her and Dad are happy in heaven together. I really miss those long telephone conversations that we would have. It was so similar to the conversations she would have with her sisters in that we could talk about anything for quite a long time. I always knew that I could pick up the phone if I saw something on TV that she would get a kick out of. We discussed everything and the time would just fly by.
Mom was a very smart person and never let any of us settle for less. I know that my strength today comes from her (and Dad, of course). Often, I will see something and the first thought that comes to mind is "Boy would Mom have loved that". She would have loved the technology to do genealogy, all of the new stores available, and the old tv shows on dvd.
I made her a promise that last day I saw her before slipping into a coma that I would continue to keep the family history going. Unfortunately I haven't done nearly as much as I should have. I plan to change that immediately. She did so much work and left such a rich collection of photos and notes. I just want to add to it and keep it updated.
Thank you Mom for the 43 years I had with you. It wasn't enough but that was all that I was given. Someday we will meet again and until then, my memories of you will have to do.
Mom was a very smart person and never let any of us settle for less. I know that my strength today comes from her (and Dad, of course). Often, I will see something and the first thought that comes to mind is "Boy would Mom have loved that". She would have loved the technology to do genealogy, all of the new stores available, and the old tv shows on dvd.
I made her a promise that last day I saw her before slipping into a coma that I would continue to keep the family history going. Unfortunately I haven't done nearly as much as I should have. I plan to change that immediately. She did so much work and left such a rich collection of photos and notes. I just want to add to it and keep it updated.
Thank you Mom for the 43 years I had with you. It wasn't enough but that was all that I was given. Someday we will meet again and until then, my memories of you will have to do.
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